UMWAMBARO W’ABAKOBWA-BYOSE KU GUKUNA-LATOUTE

UMWAMBARO W’ABAKOBWA
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Ikintu cyose kirimbishijwe kigaragara neza ko gifite ubwiza, niyo mpamvu

umukobwa agomba gutegura ejo hazaza. Ibyo bigaragarira mu isuku iranga aho

aba, uko ari, n’uko ateye.

Isuku mu rugo: Ni ngombwa ko tugira amagara mazima niba dushaka ubuzima

burambye: ibyo ni ihame. Ingo nyinshi zisenyuka kubera ko n’umugore aba

yagaragaje intege nke mu kugira isuku. Iyo byatangiye gucumbagira hirya iyo

mu cyumba, akenshi umugore acika intege n’ibyo yakoraga ugasanga atangiye

kubiha agaciro gacye cyangwa se ka ntako. Ibijyanye n’iki gice bidatinzweho,

umukobwa cyangwa umugore azi inshingano ze kugira ngo urugo rwe rugere

ahashimisha buri wese kuburyo bw’intangarugero.

Isuku ku mubiri: umubiri w’umuntu ukenera isuku ya ngombwa kugirango

biwufashe byaba kuwambika, gukaraba, kwiyuhagira, n’ibindi. Mu gihe cyo

gukaraba ni ngombwa kwita no gutinda cyane ahashobora kubangamira abandi mu

gihe hatasukuwe neza: amenyo, mu maha, igitsina….

Isuku y’igitsina: iyi suku irakenewe kuko ni intangiriro yo kugira umunezero

mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina, ntacyo byaba bimaze urya neza, ukaryama

aheza, ukambara ukaberwa ariko watambuka ukagira ngo haboreye imbeba! Hari

amasabune yifashishwa ushobora no kubaza farmacien, atangiza mu gitsina, mu

gihe ukaraba rero ni ngombwa kuhatinda ukahasukura kugirango wikorere isuku

kandi witegure na we ubwawe mu kwakira imibonano mpuzabitsina (ku

bashakanye), kuko umurimo uhakorerwa ni ingenzi mu kubaka ingo zigakomera,

ntabwo ugomba gupfobywa cyangwa ngo usuzugurwe !

Gukuna: Ni umuhango wa gikobwa ugamije kumutegura kuba umugore ubereye umugabo,

hari n’ababishyira mu rwenya ngo :”nyiranaka yaryoshya inzoga”, utangira

umukobwa ari umwangavu w’imyaka 13-18 kuko umubiri uba utarakomera atarajya

mu mihango ya gikobwa. Ariko! Uko amajyambere yihutana n’imirire myiza usanga

hari abana bajya mu mihango bafite imyaka 9-10, byaba byiza ba nyina wabo na

ba nyirasenge, bakuru babo ndetse na (ba nyina); mvuze ndetse naba nyina kuko

imiryango myinshi usanga ba nyina b’abakobwa batinya kubibaganiriza ,

bagahitamo kubateza abo bavuzwe hejuru, ubwo uwo bishobokeye nyine na nyina

yabimuganiriza!

Mu gihe cyo ha mbere uwo muhango wakundaga kubera mu gasozi nko mu gashyamba

abakobwa bitwaje kujya guca imyeyo” nkeka ko ari naho havuye iyo mvugo”, ko

uwakunnye byitwa ko yaciye imyeyo, bakitwaza kujya guca ubwatsi, gutashya

inkwi, kujya mu rubohero, n’ibindi….

Amajyambere arihuta cyane ku buryo bitakiri ngombwa kwikora muri équipe ngo

mugiye guca imyeyo; na cyane ko hateye iya ruzungu, ngo ugiye gutashya, kandi

mukoresha cuisinnière, upfa kuba ufite ibikunisho byawe, wanabikorera mu rugo

mu cyumba uraramo cyangwa n’ahandi uba warateguriye icyo gikorwa.

Ni umuhango ugomba kubahwa ukanubahirizwa; si byiza ko buri wese amenya icyo

uhugiyeho, icya ngombwa ni uko uba witegurira ibyishimo n’umunezero birambye.

Ibikunisho:

* intobo z’ibitoborwa
* amavuta y’inka (niyo yaba adakuze)
* akatsi bita gutwi kumwe
* agati bita umukonora (utubabi twako),…..



Uko bikoreshwa: ufata intobo z’ibitoborwa ukazotsa (uzivumbika mu gicaniro),

zamara gushya ugakuramo ubuhwa bwazo ukavanga n’amavuta y’inka mu kantu

gafite isuku (niyo wakwifashisha icupa ryashizemo amavuta ya gikotori)

Ushobora no gukoresha kimwe muri biriya byatsi bivanze n’amavuta y’inka!

Mu gihe ibyo byatsi cyangwa ibimera bitabashije kuboneka ukoresha amavuta

y’inka akuze ukayakoresha mu gitondo kare na nimugoroba abandi bashyizweyo!

Ni ngombwa gukorera icyo gice isuku kugirango hatagira indi mpumuro yumvikana

mu gihe hari uwo utambutseho!

Uko bakuna: wicaza ikibuno hasi, ugashinga ibirenge ku buryo amavi ashobora

kugera ku ntugu zombi, ukanyuza amaboko munsi y’ibibero ufite rwa ruvange

rw’ibyo ukunisha cyangwa se amavuta y’inka akuze (iyo ari intangiriro),

ukuboko kumwe gukurura umushino biteganye kaba kakiri gato kakagenda gakura

uko uhataho ukuna, ukururira rimwe ujyana hasi, mu ntangiriro birababaza

ndetse rimwe na rimwe ukumva wabireka, ari nayo mpamvu abakobwa bakunira

hamwe barenze umwe kugirango batizanye umurindi. Iyo umaze kugira umushino

ufatika, Ugeraho ugakuna utazura umushino mu bugari bwawo kugirango biwuhe

forme yo kuba mugari, kugeza ugwije” imyugariro”.

Mu gihe bakuna ari benshi buri wese aba afite ibikunisho bye, cyaraziraga

guha undi ku bikunisho wizaniye ngo aba agutwaye imishino ndetse akagutanga

no kugwiza bikakuzinga. Cyokora ariko mwashoboraga gufashanya babiri babiri

umwe agakuna mugenzi we ku mpungenge zo gutinya kwibabaza!

Igipimo cy’umushino

Iyo ukurura ucunganwa no kutarenza urugingo rwa kabiri rwa musumbazose cm

6-7, hari n’abanezezwa no gukuna akarurenza ariko byitwa “gukuna ibiziriko”

cyangwa se “imijabamabyi”, ndetse ngo uwakunnye ibiziriko agira umushyukwe

cyane ndetse akifuza vuba igitsina mu gihe ari mu minsi y’uburumbuke, gusa

hakabaho kwifata kugirango atiyangiriza ubukobwa bwe.

Uwagwije rero ntaba agihangayikishijwe n’ibikoresho, amavuta y’inka gusa

arahagije cyane cyane avuye mu mihango kuko umubiri uba waregeranye, akora

ibyo bita “kunanura”. Umukobwa cyangwa umugore wakunnye bimutera ishema

n’isheja agahora iteka yiteguye kunezeza umugabo mu gihe cy’imibonano

mpuzabitsina.

Bidasobanuye ko utarakunnye bamusenda, bafatanya kurwubaka kandi ntibibabuza

kunezererwa icyo gikorwa, akarusho gusa ni uko umugore wakunnye areta vuba

kandi akihuta mu kunyara no mu gusohora, bigatuma ndetse bigafasha umugabo we

akumva ko atarimo kuruhira ubusa, biramunezeza cyane iyo baharuranye ikivi

batangiranye!

Ingaruka zo kudakuna: Aho umukobwa abimenyeye ko hari igikorwa cyamwihishe

cyangwa atamenye, bimutera ipfunwe ndetse bikamubabaza cyane, akumva ahari

wenda ntacyo bimaze gushaka niba atarakunnye, kuko abandi akenshi bamuca

intege bamubwira ko bazamusenda, ngo bazamukubita intosho ishyushye mu

maguru, ngo nyirabukwe azarahiramo ivu, n’ibindi by’urucantege, ariko

binagaragara ko cyera byakorwaga. Ahora asuherewe rimwe uwo mutwaro

akawugereka kuri nyina cyangwa bakuru be bakabaye barabimuganirije, yaba

ntabo afite akibaza ati nibe n’abafite ababibakorera (yumvikanisha ko kubura

nyina yahombye byinshi; kandi koko), atangira kugerageza bitagishobotse (ngo

nyiranaka yibutse ikuna mu irongorwa); nuko aba abikoze mu gihe kitari

icyabyo:yakabaye yaragwije ananura,….

Inkurikizi

Umukobwa utarakunnye iyo ashatse umugabo wabimenyeho akanabiganirizwa

agasanga umufasha we atagira ashwi, urukundo, ubwuzu n’urugwiro yari

amufitiye bitangira kugabanuka, rimwe na rimwe akabimucyurira, icyo gihe

bisaba kwihangana no kubiganiraho kugirango yumve ko “urugo rutubakwa

n’imishino, uretse ko ngo na none urwayirozwe, umwana warwo avukana itanu”.

Bihumira ku mirari iyo umugabo asanze umugore we atanyara, hari abihangana

ntibinamenyekane ariko hari n’undi wumva ko atashatse: twibuke ibituma ingo

nyinshi zishobora gusenyuka ko n’ibi birimo, nyamara na none ibyo si

intandaro yo gutana kuko muba mwarasezeranye kubana akaramata;

Uko wakwifata mu gihe uwo washimye usanze atanyara

Mwihanganishe wowe mugabo umukorere ibindi bituma munezerwa niba ibyo

kunyarirwa mutabikozwa, wimugaya, kuko siwe wabyiteye! Bimwubahire yumve na

we akunzwe kandi yizihiye urugo muri rusange, n’umugabo we by’umwihariko.

Azakubera nyina w’abana mutarutwa wizihiye urugo mufatanyije gucunga!!!!

Azagukunda agukundwakaze, akubahire icyo wamwubahiye,

Azagutura ibihozo uhore umushaka, aho uri umwenyure uti ngwino simbi

ryandutiye bose!!!

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